why is it so hard for me to find someone to hang out with, and someone that respects me and who actually just enjoys hanging out with me!??! So, as I was saying, I have been on pof for a while. I have not met anyone really, who strikes my attention...but in the rare case i do see someone that appeals to me, for whatever reason at all...i always make the mistake of giving them my facebook profile, or my phone number. earlier, i was talking to a guy who seemed personable, as if i can get along with him. oh yeah, there was a guy i thought was cute on tinder and we exchanged facebook but as i looked through his pics, i saw he wasnt really my type, plus he didn't try to chat with me. oh, guys try to chat with me all the time, on fb and on pof, but most of the time i can just tell by looking at their pics, that i will not have that attraction...you know? but anyways, oh i actually was talking to someone without a pic, because something seemed...adult swim message boardish about this person, but then he started becoming critical and i just...stopped msging that person...

So to guys who are trying out dating sites, let me give some TIPS AND HINTS!!!!

Try to say something other than 'Hi!" or something short..

also, if a girl is msging you over an ongoing thing, maybe she is waiting for you to set up a date to meet up. but why cant the girl just ask out the guy!?? oh, i did. i did suggest meeting up...but still nothing. actually, i gave him my number in case he wanted to reach me and we could do something. he texted me that he was fixing his house, and then never suggested an actual date to meet up...

every time i exchanged fb profiles, (which was only 2 times), we always lost communication..and i did give this guy my number, but it seems like i now lost communication with him....maybe i seemed too forward or aggressive when i told him this is always the case and that i would like to continue to communicate on POF since texting is too complicated (he told me he does not like to text)...

i watched some lifetime movie about a girl who did online dating but she was a complete psycho bitch! the movie is called 'he met her online' and she was an ungrateful, complaining, psychopath! but she looked good and so she was able to manipulate men. she ruined some guys house, broke in and fucked it up good, crazy bitch style....she was having an affair with her married boss who was a doctor (and who was pretty hot but its not like that in real life come on now!)...he would buy her cars, give her money all that ....but she met some really nice guy online but she ...SPOILERS...idk it gone done fucked up!!

but i am not like that girl at all! but now i feel like, wth you know? i do not want a run around either!?? i have been talking to this guy i just want to meet to see if there is anything there! pilot guy seemed like a narcisstic weirdo

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